Category: Gender


Reflection on perfection

For years I tried to be perfect. Because that’s the purpose of life, right? To perfect oneself, in order to earn a place in the Kingdom of God. I was told by so many...


A letter to my daughter

Dear Daughter, As you know, my views on gender differ radically from Mormon orthodoxy, and I don’t make an effort to hide that from you and your brother. I think it’s important to be...


The Stories We Tell

“It might be good for you,” said my friend. “It’ll get you out and meet other people with similar values.”   I was lonely, and I liked the idea but I was hesitant. My...