Tag Archives: Relationships

Why don’t you just leave?

I’ve seen this question posed multiple times in the threads and forums of Mormondom. I’ve had friends who have run into this question in their families and wards. And it’s heartbreaking. It is never ok to question someone’s testimony. That … Continue reading

Posted in Acceptance, Belief, Changes, Family, Relationships, religion, suffering, testimony, transition | Tagged , , , , , , | 42 Comments

Give Me A Break

It’s Spring Break and I’m spending time with my family in San Diego, a place I absolutely LOVE. Like many people, especially Jana, I find peace in the ocean. I could sit on the beach and watch the waves for … Continue reading

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Poll: Matchmaking Websites

When I was single, a friend once referred me to a matchmaking website for Mormons.  Being the open-minded and curious person that I am, and since the first month was a free trial, I went ahead and signed up.  Within … Continue reading

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United We Stand

Several weeks ago I was witness to a horrific act of spiritual violence. A leader in my ward called three women to speak on marriage but used their life stories to represent a telestial, terrestrial and celestial existence. I don’t … Continue reading

Posted in confidence, Friendship, Mormon women, sisterhood, women | Tagged , , | 13 Comments

What Role Does Jealousy Play in a Relationship?

The other day, I said to my husband. “You know how there are some couples that share an email address, so that they can keep an eye on the online interactions of their partners? Would you ever have any desire … Continue reading

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You’ve Got Some Mansplainin’ To Do

We had a little interchange here at Exponent this week. It’s a fairly common one for us and a lot of female-run blogs. Commenters of the male persuasion will swoop in and inform us of our general ignorance/misunderstanding of the … Continue reading

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Of Baby Blessings and Love

A year ago this month, mr. mraynes and I were driving home from a trip to Costco where we had stocked up on what I hoped would be some of the last diapers we would ever buy. Our two children … Continue reading

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An Ideal Husband

Last week I read an obituary for Martin D. Ginsburg, the husband of Ruth Bader Ginsburg. Several things struck me about this obituary; first, he was referred to as a “Supreme Court Spouse”. How many men are known for their … Continue reading

Posted in Family, feminism, Gender roles, marriage, Mormon women | Tagged , , | 28 Comments

For Those Who Have Eyes to See

For Those Who Have Eyes to See When my daughter was 10 she attended a summer camp in Ohio. The couple who ran the program – I’ll call them Mr. & Mrs. Greenjeans – weren’t Amish, but they kept a … Continue reading

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Follow my Lead

Posted by Zenaida Recently I had a fabulous opportunity to attend a swing dancing workshop. It was so much fun!  It was really satisfying to immerse myself in learning a skill.  At the end I felt like I had made … Continue reading

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